Amazon affiliate question

Hi I have a quick question about creating personas. Could amazon block us or deny affiliation if for example the person getting paid is me, a male with x name, but the persona who "owns" the website is a female with Y name?

Another questions is: If I have family members who always buy stuff on amazon, would it be wrong to just tell them to go through my links first? Is there any way of losing affiliation that way too? Thank you