my link was placed on a site

someone placed my link on a site. my link doesn't appear on the actual page, you can only see it if you view source. The anchor text is some spammy shit like "replica handbags"
The site is clearly . Even if you google it, they have the "this site may be " waing. could be a sape site, I dont know.
I am not bothering anybody, I am not even on page 1, I dont know why they picked me. WTF? why me?
I am afraid I will get a penalty. I have invested so much money into this site and I was going to be on page 1 in the next month or so.
it is a weird chinese site so contacting them wont get me anywhere. other than disavowing, how can I protect myself?